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Why the Aggressive Restrictions on Girls?

Why the Aggressive Restrictions on Girls?

Aditi Kashyap

The society we live in has several restrictions on women that control what they can and cannot do, how they should and should not behave. But why the restrictions?

Restriction is the action of limiting the freedom of somebody or something. Usually, a restriction is in place because a limit needs to be set. ]

Why the Restrictions?

Now, I really wonder why Is the word RESTRICTIONS used only for girls? In our society, restrictions are for girls, but not for boys. Countries like India are a land of diversified cultures but besides these colorful traditions, there exist some restrictions and a set of rules and regulations in our country which are called ‘sanskars’, and anyone who breaks the norm even a little bit, especially women, is pointed out to be a villain.

In the 21st century, where women have surpassed all boundaries and even made their way to outer space, a thought still prevails in our society that women are destined to be confined within the four walls of the house, and the kitchen is their second home. In India, girls and boys experience adolescence differently, while boys tend to experience greater freedom, girls tend to face extensive limitations on their ability to move freely and to make decisions affecting their work, education, marriage, and social relationships.

In The Spotlight

Our society always puts women in the focus because they believe women can either be right or wrong but of course men are always right. I think we are constantly over infatuated with body parts, that is why we are going on recognizing people by their gender.

We don’t recognize people by their intelligence, by their capabilities by their competence only by their gender. For certain aspects of our life, gender is important but for the rest of life how much brain you got is important, Gender is only valid in a certain relationship. We must say human rights and women are part of it that’s all.

Society Rules

Our societies thinking, Beware, Ladies! If You Do These 5 Things Then You’re No More A Sanskaari Woman :

  • Drinking and smoking
  • Wearing western dresses
  • Being single and living alone
  • Having male friends
  • Travelling alone

And still many more….

When we would walk down the street and had men look from our feet to our face and we would listen as they completely replaced our identity from women to object. We always listen If you see a strange man following you then you go to the other side. And this is something we had to learn at the age of teenage because we are just young friends.

We have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it.

We screamed because the men that followed us on the sidewalks finally caught up to us. We quietly said, please don’t touch us there. But that meant to go, we said no, but that meant yes, so they grabbed us unzipped our dress, and threw us down.

After that, we want to make sure we are as covered as possible so that our identities are not replaced with walking candy, and we live in fear. We went from playing with our to being toys ourselves so boys will be boys, and we women will never tell, Yes this is the truth of our so-called Society.

Society Norms and Demands

As girls, we are told to be quiet because girls don’t make a noise. Wow! What a great strategy, girls don’t make noise. When the first time that old uncle touches you in the staircase, you go back home running looking terrified, just go to your room and cry but don’t utter a word to anyone.

When the man in the bus presses your tiny breasts you look at him but the lady in front of you looks at you and blink eyelashes as it commanding your silence. When your 50-year tutor gets “friendly” With you and moves his hand under your skirt, you lose your voice. All the girls who are reading or I think every girl know that touch and how disgusting it leaves you feeling but you stay quiet.

In our society especially in India, women can be categories into two types, One is whore and the other is slut. “Man, she refused to sleep with me man, What a whore!” And other is “She slept with me, what a slut!” Our society never fails to astound us, its logic is plain weird just out of this world. We are the land of customs, traditions, values and the truth is they give so much respect to the girls (see the names) tota, pataka (firecracker), chamiya (sexy babe), phooljhadi (sex bomb) What culture, what a society.

This country and society are really beyond my understanding. Every guy wants a virgin (sanskari) bride, doesn’t matter if he frequents Bangkok for pleasure. If a guy with six girls he is a stud! And if a girl with six boys she is a slut! I just say that all these men with their big penises, who want to go out there and protect us and make things safe for us who are watching out for us, My request is don’t watch us! Look away, that will be enough to solve most of our problems.

Be who you are and say how you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those that matter don’t mind. Yes, there are a number of restrictions in girls’ life in the past, present, future. If you can’t break today more girls will join in that restricted zone and face problems you are facing right now. So next time when someone touches you without your wish, your desire, your consent, just make the noise and let that noise be heard! Make the noise against restrictions, make noise against everything which is going wrong around you. You have to break the rules restrictions for your desire and your freedom.

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We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

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We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

We were spanked by the boys at our school, but it was cool because it just meant we had nice bodies. And yes we have to watch what we wore because if too much shoulder was showing we had to change our clothing because it distracted the boys from their learning. So, the only things that we were learning were tips and tricks to tie up our shirt so that it didn’t hang too low because that would show the guys that we want it. restrictions

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